Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Mother

MOTHERnoun [Latin mater, mother; matrix, the womb; materia, matter, stuff, materials of which any thing is made. We observe that in some other languages, as well as in English, the same word signifies a female parent, and the thick slime formed in vinegar; and in all the languages of Europe here cited, the orthography is nearly the same as that of mud and matter. The question then occurs whether the name of a female parent originated in a word expressing matter, mold; either the soil of the earth, as the producer, or the like substance, when shaped and fitted as a mold for castings; or whether the name is connected with the opinion that the earth is the mother of all productions; whence the word mother-earth. We are informed by a fragment of Sanchoniathon, that the ancient Phenicians considered mud to be the substance from which all things were formed. See Mud. The word matter is evidently from the Ar. madda, to secrete, eject or discharge a purulent substance; and I think cannot have any direct connection with mud. But in the Italian, Spanish and Portuguese, the same word madre signified mother and a mold for castings; and the northern languages, particularly the German and Danish, seem to establish the fact that the proper sense of mother is matrix. Hence mother of pearl, the matrix of pearl. If this word had its origin in the name of the earth used for the forms of castings, it would not be a singular fact; for our word mold, in this sense, I suppose to be so named from mold, fine earth. The question remains sub judice.]

1. A female parent; especially, one of the human race; a woman who has borne a child; correlative to son or daughter.

2. That which has produced any thing.

Alas, poor country! it cannot

Be called our mother but our grave.

So our native land is called mother country, and a plant from which a slip or cion is taken, is called the mother plant. In this use, mother may be considered as an adjective.

3. That which has preceded in time; the oldest or chief of any thing; as a mother-church.

4. Hysterical passion. [Not used.]

5. A familiar term of address or appellation of an old woman or matron.

6. An appellation given to a woman who exercises care and tenderness towards another, or gives parental advice; as when one says, ' a woman has been a mother to me.'

7. A thick slimy substance concreted in liquors, particularly in vinegar, very different from scum or common lees.

MOTHER of pearl, noun The matrix of pearl; the shell in which pearls are generated; a species of Mytilus or Mussel.

MOTHER of thyme, noun A plant of the genus Thymus.

MOTHERadjective Native; natural; received by birth; as mother-wit.

1. Native; vernacular; received from parents or ancestors; as mother-tongue.

MOTHERverb intransitive To concrete, as the thick matter of liquors.

MOTHERverb transitive To adopt as a son or daughter.

QUOTES:

My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.

George Washington


The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. When you become a mother, you are no longer the center of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children.

Jessica Lange

To be a good father and mother requires that the parents defer many of their own needs and desires in favor of the needs of their children. As a consequence of this sacrifice, conscientious parents develop a nobility of character and learn to put into practice the selfless truths taught by the Savior Himself.

James E. Faust

 SCRIPTURES:

Exodus 20

12 ¶Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.

Proverbs 15:

20 A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish man despiseth his mother.

Alma 57

21 Yea, and they did obey and observe to perform every word of command with exactness; yea, and even according to their faith it was done unto them; and I did remember the words which they said unto me that their mothers had taught them.

PERSONAL DEFINITION:

I think mother means someone who creates. They nurture and love. 

I asked my Mom if she ever got tired of being a mom, and she said "No, being a mother is the happiest calling in life."

I think the reason it is so hard, and yet fulfilling is because once you become a mother you sacrifice so much for someone that your capacity to love increases dramatically. The more depth of love you have, the more your life is full of purpose.



Happiness

(My notes will have a little @ by them.)

HAP'PINESSnoun [from happy.] The agreeable sensations which spring from the enjoyment of good; that state of a being in which his desires are gratified, by the enjoyment of pleasure without pain; felicity; but happinessusually expresses less than felicity, and felicity less than bliss. happiness is comparative. To a person distressed with pain, relief from that pain affords happiness; in other cases we give the name happiness to positive pleasure or an excitement of agreeable sensations. happiness therefore admits of indefinite degrees of increase in enjoyment, or gratification of desires. Perfect happiness or pleasure unalloyed with pain, is not attainable in this life.

2. Good luck; good fortune.

3. Fortuitous elegance; unstudied grace.

For there's a happiness as well as care.

QUOTES:

~Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.

Omar Khayyam

@I think this is talking about being grateful in the moment, which I think is really important when you're trying to live a joyful life.

~I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.

Martha Washington

@Happiness comes when you do your best with the best you have.

~Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Mahatma Gandhi

@When your thoughts and actions are combined in one purpose for good, you can be happy.

~True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery

@I think you can be happy when you accomplish something, or do something to better the world.


SCRIPTURES:

Psalms 128

2 For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee.

@Working towards a righteous cause will bring joyous rewards.

Proverbs 3

13 ¶Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding.

@Active learning brings joy.

Proverbs 16

20 He that handleth a matter wisely shall find good: and whoso trusteth in the Lord, happy is he.

@You can find peace and joy when you put yourself fully in the Lord's hands. 

Romans 14

22 Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.

@Have faith in the atonement and don't beat yourself up over what mistakes you made.


PERSONAL DEFINITION:

 There are kind of two versions of happiness. One is, pain free, pleasure, ease, comfort, relief, enjoyment, and kind of just fulfillment of carnal desires.

But in the scriptures, there's more to it. It's more of joy, obedience, righteousness, grace, love, trust, hope. It is more connected with keeping the commandments and it's like a fulfillment for spiritual desires.

I think another big part of true happiness (or joy) is gratitude.

Being ungrateful will always lead to feeling of anger, discontentment, and it drives the spirit away. Gratitude is showing God through word and deed that you appreciate what He has given you. So it includes being righteous and having a good attitude.

You can choose lasting happiness with your mind and actions. Choose to have the spirit.